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Finding In-Home Child Care

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Who Provides In-home Child Care

In-home Child Care is provided by individuals who fall under various titles including nannies, au pairs, mother’s helpers or in-home caregivers. All of these titles mean the same thing – a child care provider who comes into your home. The degree of experience and training a person has in the field of child care varies on an individual basis. One important consideration to be aware of is that the state does not regulate this type of care. Finding a quality in home child care provider is the primary responsibility of the consumer.

How Do I Find Someone?

There are various ways of locating a person who can provide child care in your home.

  • Nanny agency
  • Au Pair Agency
  • Newspapers
  • Local Colleges
  • Word of Mouth

How Do I Select The Right Person?

Thorough screening and interviewing of candidates for the job is crucial in determining who might have the skills, training and background that best fit your child care needs.

Screening

If you decide to go through an agency, a background check will most likely have been conducted. You may want to ask to see documentation. You may also want to check with the Better Business Bureau for additional information on the agency you are working with. If you decide to search for an in-home provider on your own, please review the attached documentation on conducting your own criminal background check on an individual. Also, ask for at least 3 references, not more than one from a relative and CHECK THEM.

Interviewing

If a person has met your initial screening criteria, plan a face-to-face interview with the individual. It may be helpful to use the Interview Questions document in this packet. If it is favorable, introduce your children to her/him to see how they interact. Plan to discuss each of your expectations, how compatible your lifestyles, values, and attitudes are. Elicit responses to sample situations that may occur in the care-giving situation. Review family rules. Firm up the responsibilities, salary and benefits of employment in your home.

Tips to Create a Successful Partnership:

  • Offer the individual a fair wage (If possible, offer benefits)
  • Be clear in the providers job responsibilities and rules of the house
  • Treat your in-home provider as a professional
  • Show respect and appreciation for a job well done
  • Keep the lines of communication open. Set up a system of daily communication as well as in-depth discussion of how things are going. Review your in home child care agreement on a annual basis (sooner if warranted)

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